Frank Reed Grover |
Very few of us know when we are going to die. If we did know, would we take that as an opportunity to write a Farewell Letter to our family and friends? One person who did was Frank Reed Grover (1858-1919). He was a charter member of the Evanston Historical Society and a well known attorney and historian. Grover left instructions that his "Farewell Letter" was to be read at his funeral. It was not read at his funeral because it was not found until after the funeral was over, so the Evanston News-Index published it in its entirety in their January 7, 1920 issue:
The years of my life have gone by almost like so many months. There has been sorrow and care and a lot of hard work, but it has been a beautiful world just the same, which I have enjoyed (I hope not too selfishly) as I went along. I have found many true friends, and in every one, when I have taken the pains to ascertain (I have found) something worthwhile. If I could speak a little farewell it would be a prayer of thankfulness for what my true friends have meant to me. To my family there are no farewells to say, for in the sacred temple of the home there has been that love and understanding that needs no parting words. And now - in the evening whatever may be the sunrise in the great plan of human destiny - I meet it ready and unafraid.
Let's see what we can "dig up" about this beloved Evanstonian.
Frank Reed Grover was born September 17, 1858 in Lyons, Illinois to Aldin J. Grover (1822-1902) and Eliza Diana Reed (1829-1871). Aldin and Eliza were married March 23, 1856 and were blessed with seven children: Frank Reed (1858-1949), Etta Margaret/Mrs. Dr. Charles H. Thayer (1860-1906), Katherine Susan (1863-1916), Caroline Ella/Mrs. Warren Rufus Smith (1867-1948), Aldin Chester (1869-1869), Chester Aldin (1871-1957) and Louise Mary (1870-1950). Frank's father Aldin Grover started out as a farmer and mechanic by trade but branched out into construction and real estate.
Frank makes his first appearance in the 1860 US Census. The Grover family was living in the Town of Wales, Erie County, New York. The family consisted of: Alden (sic) Grover (35 years old), wife Eliza D. (30), Frank R. (2), and Etta (2 mos.). Aldin reported his occupation as "Farmer and Mechanic" and said he owned personalty worth $100.00 ($3,800.00 in today's funds).
Aldin Grover moved his young family to Evanston in 1866. He thought his children would receive a better education there because of the proximity of Northwestern University.
The 1870 US Census finds the Grover family in Evanston. The family had grown significantly and now consisted of: Aldin (47 years old), Eliza (40), Frank (12), Etti (10), Susan (8), Carrie (6), and Louise (1). Living with the Grover family was Salina Ragren (18) a "Domestic Servant". Aldin reported his occupation as "Carpenter", and reported Real Estate worth $20,000 ($481,000 in today's funds) and personalty worth $1,000 ($24,000 in today's funds).
Frank's mother, Eliza Reed Grover died October 31, 1871 in Evanston. She was 49 years old. This was less than two weeks after the birth of her son Chester who was born October 18th. A cause of death was not revealed but it was probably Complications from Childbirth which killed so many women in those days. She was buried in the Grover Family Plot at Rosehill:
Aldin Grover remarried in 1875 to Mrs. Mary Eliza Whelden Skinner (1834-1917). She was the widow of Deacon Oliver Buell Skinner (1832-1873).
On June 23, 1877 Frank Grover graduated from the Evanston High School. Classes were taught by public school superintendent Otis Erastus Haven in an upper room of the Benson Avenue School (Benson Avenue and Davis Street). Grover was a member of the second graduating class of the high school. The first class, consisting of two students, graduated in 1876. The graduation exercises were held in the Lecture Room of the Methodist Church. At his graduation, Grover presented an Oration entitled "Patriotism." The high school building at Dempster and Elmwood did not open until 1883.
The 1880 US Census shows Frank Grover still living with his father and family in Evanston. The family consisted of: Aldin (57), wife Mary (45), Frank R. (21), Etta (19), Susan (17), Carrie (15), Louisa (11) and Chester (8). Also living with them was Eliza's son Mortimer Buel "Morty" Skinner (15). Frank Grover said his occupation was "Commercial Agent."
After a course of study at the Union College of Law, part of the University of Chicago, Frank Grover passed his bar examinations and was admitted to practice law on March 14, 1882. Thirty-one students were presented for the examinations; twenty-two passed including Grover. Shortly thereafter, Frank Grover opened a law office at 156 Washington Street in downtown Chicago.
The Evanston City Directory for 1882 shows the Grover family to be living at 444 Sherman Avenue in Evanston.
On March 20, 1884, Frank R. Grover married Miss Ella F. Smith (1859-1956) in Pleasant Grove, Olmstead County, Minnesota. The bride was twenty-four; the groom was twenty-five.
Ella Florence Smith was born October 4, 1859 in Lyle, Mower County, Minnesota. Her parents were William D. Smith (1825-1905) and Lydia Elmina "Abbie" Barber (1830-1905). William Smith was a farmer by trade. William Smith was first married to Betsey Maria Barber (1830-1853). They had two children: William Everett Smith (1850-1918) and Emily M. Smith (1853-1853). Betsey Smith died August 22, 1853 in Java Village, New York. She was twenty-three years old.
William Everett Smith then married Lydia Elmina "Abbie" Barber (1830-1905) in 1854. William and Lydia had eight children: Olive Jerusha/Mrs. Edward Toy (1855-1905), Ella Florence/Mrs. Frank Grover (1859-1956), Victor O. (1860-1862), Minnehaha E. (1863-1866), Cora Annette/Mrs. Scott Stuckman (1866-1949), Vernon Elijah (1868-1922), Eldred Joseph (1871-1958), and Merton Royal (1876-1960).
Upon their return to Chicagoland, Mr. & Mrs. Frank R. Grover lived at 511 Grove Street at East Railroad Avenue. In his law practice, Grover specialized in being a Trustee for the benefit of creditors in Bankruptcy cases.
Note: all Evanston addresses mentioned here prior to 1893 are using the "old" numbering system. Chicago standardized its numbering system in 1909. Evanston was ahead of the game here - Evanston standardized its numbering system in 1893.
In 1885 Frank Grover was elected Justice of the Peace in Evanston after having been nominated by the Republican Party. In this regard, he opened an additional office, at 418 Davis Street.
In 1886, Frank and Ella Grover moved to 608 Grove in Evanston and in 1890 got a telephone! Their telephone number was "55". The Grovers were blessed with a son on August 24, 1886: Mortimer Curry Grover (1886-1962). He was their only child.
Frank Grover also moved his law office in 1886 - to 115 Dearborn, where he remained until 1894.
The 1890 US Census for this area is of course, lost.
In May of 1891, Frank R. Grover was chosen to become the Village Attorney for the Village of Evanston. You might think this was not a controversial decision, but the opposite was true as reported by the Chicago Tribune on May 27, 1891:
In 1894 Grover moved his Chicago law office to the sixteen story Unity Building, located at 79 N. Dearborn Street where he remained in Suite 1331 until 1909.
Frank Grover took out a Personal ad in the Tribune of January 21, 1894 concerning a robbery at his home:
I am pleased to report that Mortimer Grover did recover and died in 1962 at the age of 75.
Frank Grover always had a great interest in history. He wrote a Letter to the Editor of the Evanston Index Newspaper which was published on May 1, 1897:
The 1900 US Census finds the Grover family still living at 1508 Sherman Avenue in Evanston. The family consisted of: Frank R. (41 years old); wife Ella (40), son Mortimer C. (13). Also living there was servant Flora Munn (19) and Frank's sister Louise Grover (30). Frank and Ella reported they had been married for sixteen years; Ella said she had given birth to one child who was still living in 1900; they said the lived in a house and that it had a mortgage. Frank reported his occupation as "Attorney."
On November 2, 1901 Frank Grover took his interest in history to the public for the first time. He read a paper to the Evanston Historical Society entitled: Our Indian Predecessors - The First Evanstonians. With this offering Grover combined two of his major interests, Native Americans and Evanston history. The paper was so well received Grover decided to publish it. It was published by The Index Press of Evanston, the same printer and publisher of the Evanston Index newspaper.
On November 6, 1901 the Chicago Tribune reported that Frank Grover was moving his household to Greenleaf and Hinman along with moving his house:
His new address would be 1100 Hinman Avenue. The house is still standing today:
1100 Hinman Avenue, Evanston |
After the move, Grover listed his Sherman Avenue plot for sale:
Chicago Tribune - July 12, 1902 |
Frank Grover's father, Aldin Grover died April 6, 1902 in Evanston. He was seventy-nine years old. Here is his obituary from the Chicago Inter Ocean from April 7, 1902:
Aldin J. Grover 1822-1902 |
He was buried in the family plot at Rosehill Cemetery:
In 1907 Frank Grover published his third book: Father Pierre François Pinet, S. J., and his Mission of the Guardian Angel of Chicago (L'Ange gardien) 1696-1699 - a paper read Before a Joint Meeting of the Chicago Historical Society and the Evanston Historical Society in the Chicago Historical Society Building November 27, 1906:
Our Indian Predecessors:
https://archive.org/details/ourindianpredec00illgoog
Some Indian Land Marks of the North Shore:
https://archive.org/details/someindianlandm00grovgoog/page/n42/mode/2up
Father Pierre François Pinet, S. J., and his Mission of the Guardian Angel of Chicago (L'Ange gardien) 1696-1699:
https://archive.org/details/fatherpierrefra00grovgoog/page/n4/mode/2up
Antoine Ouilmette : a resident of Chicago A.D. 1790-1826. The first settler of Evanston and Wilmette (1826-1838) with a brief history of his family and the Ouilmette reservation.
https://archive.org/details/antoineouilmette00grov/mode/2up
A Brief History of Les Cheneaux Islands, Some New Chapters of Mackinac History.
https://archive.org/details/ABriefHistoryOfLesCheneauxIslands
Indian treaties affecting lands in the present State of Illinois
https://archive.org/details/jstor-40193804/page/n23/mode/2up